I knew this. But if your not respecting me, then i would definitely do the same to you.
OUR attitude depends on how a person treat us, but please... Try to reflect on yourself. On what have you done and what you are continously doing.
I am not a born leader, but I have build my reputation as a true friend. I have friends to justify it anyway. (I can still think of a few that will understand me and will stand by me no matter how moody and how childish I maybe)
I will definitely not force someone to like me... I'm not that kind of person.